It is time for some interesting facts about orgasms. You know, that mind blowing feeling you get when sex ends well. The things I’m about to say are mostly about female orgasms, just so you know.
First of all, did you know that orgasms can relieve pain? You know how we, women, sometimes use the excuse “Not now, honey. I have a headache”. Well maybe that’s the right moment to have sex. There’s this chemical ‘Oxytocin’ that can relieve pain for about 8 – 10 minutes. Heck, even thinking about sex can help relieve some pain.
People! Condoms do NOT affect orgasm quality. It is a complete myth that condoms don’t make for good sex. They can actually make the sex better, because they help you spend more time having sex.
Even though orgasms are awesome, 30% of women have trouble reaching that point. Something that might help to get there is clitoris stimulation or even medical treatment. Not being able to orgasm is actually a condition called ‘Female Sexual Dysfunction’ (FSD).
G-spot = orgasm. The spot got its ‘G’ from Ernst Gräfenberg, MD, a German gynaecologist who discovered it in the fifties. The G-spot is believed to have a lot of nerve endings which cause longer and stronger orgasms.
The older, the better? I don’t know yet, but orgasms do get better with age. The older you get, the better your sex life gets, especially the quality and quantity of orgasms. Apparently it gets easier with age. There isn’t really a scientific explanation for this, but it probably has something to do with experience.
Mix it up and make it fun to get better orgasms. If having trouble with 'getting there' it might be a good idea to switch and spice it up in the bedroom. It’s easier for women to experience orgasm when they’re mixing up the sex acts. Doing the same thing over and over again is boring.
You know ladies how good self esteem instantly makes you feel better. Well, the same goes for your sexual self esteem and the quality of your orgasm. It is scientifically proven that how a woman feels about her genitals affects the quality of her orgasms. Just like the rest of our bodies, our vajayjay has a certain individual look. There is no perfect way for it to be. As long as it’s pain free down there, you’re good. By getting to know your private parts, it will improve you sex life.
Gap. No, I don’t mean the thigh ‘gap’, but the orgasm ‘gap’. This means that men have it easier when it comes to orgasms. The thing is, they think that if they have an orgasm that we have an orgasm. Not always true, you know.
Brace yourselves for this one: you can have orgasms without having to stimulate your vagina. I mean, you’ve probably already heard about it. Having an orgasm while having a massage, sitting on a train or stuff like that. The crazy thing is that it’s true. There’s a reason for it though: increased blood flow to the genitals combined with vibration or contact with the clitoris. Pretty cool if you ask me. Just for the sake of it, I added an interesting video to demonstrate.
Give it time. It’s known that most women need more time to climax than their male partner. Women need at least 20 minutes. And yeah we all know how that goes for men…. You can help him last longer though. Boy, us women have to do EVERYTHING, don’t we?
So I hope you enjoyed these facts. I have to say: never in my life have I used the word ‘orgasm’ as much as in this blog entry. Girls, read this and remember it. It might really help you.